All right, this may be a long one.Let's just get the basics down here, (sorry if its terribly quality, I'm on mobile) So my (18 F) boyfriends(Kai 19) stepbrother (Jack 18) who is also his best friend has had this girlfriend (Tina 18) for a while. Jack and Tina have a child together who is a couple of months old. (Names are changed for obvious reasons)We all hung out a LOT and stayed the night at their parents house multiple times over the summer. While we were there, My boyfriend noticed her acting off, and that she was following him everywhere when they were in a room alone. After a month or two, more hints flew in. She was flirting with him, talking dirty to him and just in general being odd. After this, a day where I was outside with the younger people who lived in the house, Tina kissed him. They both agreed that it was nothing and she apologised. My boyfriend was shaken by it, and made sure he never left my side. During all of this my boyfriend constantly kept me updated on if she did anything out of the ordinary or werid.We never mentioned any of this to his step brother as at that point we cared more about their kid, who still was only a couple months old at the time. We both thought that maybe it was something that she was having internal problems with. We let it slide.Maybe a few months pass, and there's only small things, such as her following him around and trying to talk to him, only to be avoided. After this, we stopped going over to their house as my boyfriend wasn't comfortable there anymore.About a month after we stop coming over, both Tina and Jack come over and spend the night while I wasnt at my boyfriends house. (I was at my dads, celebrating his birthday with some gifts and food.) Then I turn on my phone to see that Tina was trying to have sex with him , and kissed him again. He attempted to get away from her as soon as possible and messaged me straight away. (A little bit of back story though, my boyfriend freezes in situations like this due to someone forcing themselves upon him when he was a young, so therefore he didnt have an automatic reaction to pushing her off of him.)That night I lost it, and I almost ended our relationship with how frustrated and confused I was. We had to tell Jack. We told him, and a bunch of drama spewed from it. She tried to say they had sex, that they kissed multiple times, etc. This was not true as the day that she tried to say they did it, was a day that we were all here, including my boyfriends parents who were downstairs in the area she said it happened. After about a day or so, she confessed to it being a lie and that they didnt have sex. But then proceeded to lie again over and over. All during this time Jack was mad at Kai, even though we had told him nothing but the truth.After a couple of days, Jack decides that hes going to MARRY Tina. So they get married, and his word to his father was "I mean it's for our kid, but it works out that's cool too"I dont know how to react. This was almost a month ago, but it still burns me and makes me angry. How can I avoid her at all costs, even at family events? She's completely split up both sides of the family because of this, I dont want to see her in fear of telling at her/telling her off. What should I do?TLDR: My boyfriends stepbrother decides to marry his girlfriend after she cheated on him for months and lied to him multiple times. via /r/relationship_advice https://ift.tt/36NUhHI
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