Some Backgroundmy cousin BB is 13, was adopted by my Aunt K and her wife C (C is her aunt, her sister was a hard-core druggie so C adopted BB when she was a baby)My Aunt K is a verbally abusive, angry, drunk, chain smoker, military strict absolute bitch.I live in Washington, they live in CaliforniaI had to deal with all of my family's abuse down there growing up, it was awful. For example, if you didn't do something right or did it a different way you were called "a fucking dumbass" "stupid" "dipshit" and a bunch of other names and long rants about "can't do a simple fucking thing" by my grandpa, my dad, and his 2 sisters.With Aunt K, I remember years ago on Xmas morning, i was like 15 and my cousin 7. Everything was going good, we were all opening presents and laughing, then BB opened a gift from her moms, it was a laptop/tablet. She had been asking for it for awhile, she was so excited. Then Aunt B yelled "IF I SEE A FUCKING PASSWORD ON THAT GODDAMN THING, ILL BREAK IT OVER MY FUCKING KNEE!!!" We were all silent, Aunt C was telling Aunt K to knock it off, and BB almost started crying. She was quiet for the rest of the gift opening, not excited like before. And that's a normal thing. It happened all the time.I sent her a black hoodie last month for her birthday, with a anime character on it, todoroki from MHA.Aunt K sent me the hoodie back today, with a note sayingHi OP thank You for the gifts you sent BB . Due to some issues we are having we are not allowing any black cloth or any cloths with logos. I will send the other gifts to her thank you for thinking of her on her birthday. Love aunt KI messaged my dad who lives down there and asked what is going on with her, (I've been messaging her and hasn't gotten a response)She's living with our other aunt, because she flunked school, was cutting class, smoking weed and talking to her birth mother (who was a former drug addict but is doing much better now from what I've heard. She found out she was adopted when aunt K was drunk and got really shitty with BB and told her)Aunt K and her wife had 3 other kids, but Aunt K drove them all away with how abusive and strict she is. This is the fourth time this is happening.I know she's only acting out to rebel because they treat her so bad, are so strict, and verbally abusive.I know exactly what she's going through because I went through that, I was just lucky enough to move to Washington with my mom and got away from all that.I know for a FACT if she were to come live with me, she'd be able to grow, she'd be able to flourish and do better. Just like I did. She NEEDS to get away from all that abuse and negativity.I live with my parents (mom and step dad) and pay rent. I have a good steady job at Fred meyer, its only part time but were getting more hours, like up to 30 a week.PLEASE, someone tell me, Is there anyway I'd be able to get her? What can I do? I'm so upset about this, I just want to take her away from them and hug her tight, to be able to show her how a family should be and what its like to actually be loved and respected.Someone please help via /r/legaladvice https://ift.tt/3irXfUe
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