Narcissistic parents not really knowing me despite living with them for 19 years

I am still living with my NParents and I've always been under the impression that they don't know me. I know that if I asked them what games I play, what subjects I liked when I was in school, what music I listen to etc. They would not be able to come up with an answer. I have so many old and recent memories of things like this happening.First one is they never have known what foods I like and don't like. If we went to some sort of family event or out to dinner (which is rare) they always seemed confused when I wouldn't eat a specific item. For my whole lofe it's always been then same 5 or so foods that they constantly bring up.Also whenever they talk about my childhood they talk about how much I loved soccer. I hated soccer. K was bad at it and the other girls bullied me. I would cry and beg them to take me out of it. Yet somehow they just forgo this and have these fantasies of me being the star or the team and loving it. My mom also made me be friends with certain kids that I didn't like. She pild assign play dates and I would always tell her I didn't like those girls. Yet a decade later she alwahs brings up "Oh i remember Sally your old best friend. You two were always such a great group of pals."Another time that really sticks out is my mom had to make me an account for something when I was around 12. She couldn't think of the user name and password that was unique to me but I think she tried? Username was "OPlovescats" we had a cat so I guess. Password was OrangeJuice. I asked why and she goes "Well I had to pick something you like!" I have never in ny life dranken orange juice more than once or twice a year. Ut was just such an odd thing. I have so many of these minor little stories but ive honestly come to the conclusion that my parents never once considered that I have hobbies and interests. via /r/raisedbynarcissists https://ift.tt/2EGsNrM