My mom is now having a major meltdown after I chose to go LC because she always acts like her grandsons are in the wrong

I just wanted to come on here and update since There has been stuff that has happened since then, and feel like I need to vent.So ever since my post I had a LONG conversation with both my brothers and we have agreed to go NC with mom for the way she behaved, If anything they both said that mom has said a lot about my parenting over the years behind my back, I was surprised to hear this, and admitted to them mom had been doing it to them to, but she tried telling me about 'their parenting' and I always have shut her down because I didn't want to hear it. It seems she just has a problem about anything these days.They are both happy that one of us finally lost it and told her off about her picking on any of our sons, this considering they both admitted they wouldn't have done it the way I did and taken the nicer approach, being our mom and all.A couple hours later my oldest brother calls me to let me know mom wants to see us to apologize, I told him I would go, I contacted her to give me a place or time, and she asked me if the kids were going to be there, I told her no, She didn't say anything else.When we met up she seemed polite and civil, but the moment she started bringing up what my son did I told her to stop, she was in the wrong, and I wasn't going to let her judge my parenting. Considering she has done it to all three her kids, She got upset I brought it up and I continued to talk over her, I told her she needed to get her priorities straight and work on here behaviour. Because it was affecting the kids, she didn't think so though. I continued to tell her, her toxic behaviour was no longer tolerated and she will no longer talk or see any grand children. She tried to tell me I had no right to make that decision and I told her that all three of us had agreed on those terms, So she could live with or get help.She tried running her mouth more about unnecessary things so I told her if she continued I would not hold back the urge to slap her, She shut up after that and just sat there. So I left.She went home and ran her mouth to step dad again, and he tried to tell me off again, And how my behaviour was unacceptable, I told him that since he wasn't there and how he only felt the right to speak to me when he heard one side of things than he can enjoy his toxic trashy life with my mom because the way they continue nobody will no longer tolerate them. via /r/JUSTNOMIL https://ift.tt/3jb259B