Monday, October 12, 2020

Moving out of state after breakup - any advise?


Within the last few days my boyfriend [m28] and I [f26] ended our relationship after 3.5yrs. It was a mutual decision as we both have come to the conclusion that while we love each other we are no longer in love with each other. As the years have gone on we’ve grown further apart.I won’t lie, it comes as a devastating blow because there was a point in time that I truly thought he was the one and that we would get married and start a family. But, I digress.We moved into his parents house a few months back to save up some money. This now leaves me in an awkward position. On top of it being extremely emotionally difficult to be around him, I’m surrounded by his family in his home and I feel that I need to move out ASAP.I don’t have the ability to sustain or even find a place of my own any time soon and I don’t have anywhere else I could stay in state (with family or friends). I have an opportunity to move out of state into a place with my best friend and her husband. I think it will be a great opportunity to experience new things and be surrounded by great people. However I’m terrified of the idea only because it’s going out of my comfort zone and I’ve never lived out of the state I currently live in. I don’t really have anything holding me back here (no lease agreement, kids...etc)Has anyone else gone through something like this and if so do you have any advice for me? I’ve never taken this big of a leap before and I’m honestly a bit scared. via /r/BreakUps https://ift.tt/33Sfe2g

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