My (20F) mom left my biological father when I was 2. She has been with my step dad now for about 17 years.My bio dad had many kids with different women. So many that we don't know how many siblings there are. I have an older half sister (about 29) and older half brother (about 32-33). There's also two younger siblings who are a couple months about, and about 17-18 years old.Two years ago, I got to meet my oldest sister for the first time, along with her daughter. We got along well. It was a bit strange, knowing that we were sisters but never had met before. Especially since my mom helped raise her and our older brother for about 5 years until she left our bio dad. I met my younger siblings briefly two years ago. The brother wasn't too interested but me and my younger sister got along great.Now, our bio father did a lot of really bad things and got away with them. Hence why me, my mom and her family, and my older sister have no contact with him. So, as you can imagine, I don't want him finding me.But, when I met my older sister, she mentioned that our younger sister came out as suicidal and lesbian to her parents and they won't believe her. They took away her phone when she did, punished her, and told her she was doing it all for attention and was lying. I'd love to reach out to her, form a relationship with her, but I don't want our bio dad finding me. And if he still has control over her, he could.Any advice on what to do? via /r/Advice https://ift.tt/30oKmV3
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