A couple years ago, I found out about my parents relationship issues. There were many signs, sleeping in different beds, fighting, and lack of chemistry. But one day my parents announced they were getting a divorce, this struck me hard as a kid that has been so connect to their family and not much else, family is incredibly important to me. My sister has an absolutely horrible and toxic relationship with my dad, to the point where my sister will only talk to him about how much she hates talking to him. I was the only person keeping my dad company for years. A couple hours ago I had a major talk that was uncomfortable and awful, my dad finally pulled us in the same room (very very very very rare for all of us to be in the same room) and MADE us talk about everything that has been happening. His poor relationship with my sister, my house, income, whether my mom was moving on, who wanted the divorce, and custody. I was mainly quiet for the talk, but my sister was extremely cruel during it. It was messy and a disaster but it did raise some questions. My parent can both agree on one thing, doing the best for my sister and I but with my dads relationship with my sister, he didn’t want to provide funding for our current home that we loved so much if things didn’t change and fast. My dad is the main money maker so it lies in his hands, and while my sister had her mind made up, I don’t know what to do. While this posts main reason was to vent as I have few to talk to about it, I do need some advise. How should I handle all of this stress and fear? Should I side with my sister? I am scared that this family could break up in twos, but I would hate that, so what is the best way to handle this? via /r/relationship_advice https://ift.tt/3cxcXfB
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