I recently came back together with a woman that I love, I picture her as my wife, I want her to have my kids and I want to dedicate to them. I want to be the best husband and dad possible. It’s not common among people my age, but I do fantasize about being a dad, about building castles for my daughter and teaching my son how to ride a bike. The girl I want to have that with is my current girlfriend, which absolutely everyone in my life despises. We were together years ago, and it wasn’t pretty. We hurt each other often, and we were a mess. What happened? We grew up, we were 15 at the time, we’re 21 now; we went to college, we matured, we know what’s good and bad, and I KNOW I’ve never committed to anything like I have to her, yet everyone keeps telling me how much of a mistake this is. I don’t wanna see my friends cause they will laugh or say some dumb shit, my brother and parents will do the same. They’re all judging her and our relationship based on what happened 6 fucking years ago, why can’t I just be happy? Do I have to make everyone else happy? If you’re friend/family member is going through something similar, please be smart enough to know how to support them properly via /r/offmychest https://ift.tt/37KZQr1
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