Basically Covid-19 has my family thrown. Thankfully, no one is ill and no one has been ill. The quarantine period has forced all of us to be apart and therefore establish more boundaries. For example, all of the children in our immediate family are grown up. This year has forced space between all of the kids and our parents. I still go around once a week - apparently not enough.Anyway, earlier in the year I had some serious relationship issues and honestly one of the worst periods of my life. I had been significantly abused due to mental health disorders that my partner had not taken care of. When this was all revealed, all my family did was place significant pressure on me to get my “life together”. My siblings were the only ones to ask me if I was okay, more so my younger brother.So...I’ve had a rough go of it. I was struggling financially and without a job (for the first time since 16) and needed help which my parents provided (which I thanked them for ... a lot). Now I am back on my feet and working but everyone is still prying at my life months on. This is going on a year ago now. My mom wants me at her house every single day (I am 24. Not happening). If I don’t come every day, all I ever wanted was money from her and I’m in trouble and not saying anything.I found out today my sister has been entertaining that thought process of my moms through gossip. She had a huge wedding planned and then had an affair during quarantine. The wedding is “still on” but is very lack luster and she fights constantly with her spouse. My mom has been meddling with her business while I’ve been trying to convince her nonstop to stay out of it. I found out through screen caps that my sister has been egging on the narrative that I am out of control, immature and selfish.What do I do? Literally none of that is true and I’m pissed I was defending her in the same scenario via /r/relationship_advice https://ift.tt/2FZOzHs
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