I’m sorry if my pictures and the numbers arnt lined up I tried my best.Screenshots of the texts you’ll know when you need themIdk if the link is gunna work but I’m praying that it will I don’t know how else to put pictures in the storyA few months ago my cousin had gotten text from this guy that the both of us knew as kids. The two of them had kept in touch and I hadn’t talked to him since he moved to another school. I met him around the age of four and he moved around when I was seven or eight. He was about a year older than I was. I had forgotten about him because we hadn’t been really close until my cousin told me that he had been talking about me recently. Saying how much he missed me and that he really wanted to get in touch with me again. She refused to give him my number but he found my Instagram and Facebook and messaged me on both of those. I, thinking that I was just getting in touch with an old friend, accepted his message request. Our conversation started normal but he quickly became pushy on meeting up at a park in the town he lives in I quickly refused and then this happenedphotos 1-7I immediately picked up on the red flags and knew that this was not someone I wanted in my life yet as a boyfriend, but I wasn’t smart enough to just stop it there. I didn’t want to seem rude or anything so I just tried to be as dry as possible. I never asked him questions replied with one word answers and never texted first but this boy was not giving up he proceeded to ask family members of mine information about me like how tall I was, what I was like as a person, and where my parents worked. Most of these family members I hadn’t seen or talked to in over a year and it really bothered me. I asked why he would do that and he just replied with a simple “oh should I have not done that”He was persistent in meeting up and one of my family members told him where my mom worked. He had one day told me that he saw my mom at work and asked if I was there. I told him that I was home and he yelled at me telling me that I should have been with her so he could see me. He only ever thought about himself. We didn’t talk for a while mostly cuz I had been ignoring him but he texted me the next weekend and I answered without thinking. He asked me what I was doing. Here’s what happened.photos 8-10He also was voluntarily give of me weird information. This is when I found out he worshiped satin and had been in and out of juvie in the 10-15 years that I hadn’t seen him. Also thisphoto 11I knew blocking him wasn’t an option for he would only harass my cousin until I added him back. I continued avoiding not talking to him and he slowly got the hint. I had repeatedly told him that I did not want a relationship with him and he eventually gave in. But not the way I wanted him too. I woke up one morning seeing a notification that he had tagged me in a post.photo 12-14After my friend found it he dm this guy calling him a douchebag for even making the fact that I did not want a relationship public (he had a public account and some of his friends were dming me telling me how awful I was for not dating him) I didn’t include the full “song” for it is extremely embarrassing, hurtful, offensive and racist he made me out to be an awful person.I wasn’t surprised because when he friended me he was doing the same thing to his ex and her new boyfriend because she was in a happy and stable relationship. But I got him to stop doing that to them by telling him what seemed to be common sense. He had said “ okay I won’t fight that @sshole (referring to her new boyfriend) because I love you”My friend got him to take it down and he claimed that his friend Roofied him and then posted the song about me. But he told my friend and a few other of my friends A completely different story so none of us know what to believe. But I am certainly not believing anything he says.He ended up writing an apology Song and posting that publicly which I was not very happy about it didn’t really sound apologetic at all but he deleted it within a few hours causing only me and a few of my friends and a bunch people follow him to see it he kept blaming me acting like it was my fault that he wrote the first time in the first placeHe texted me an apology but I didn’t believe himphotos 14-16A couple days after this happened I had left my phone in my friends car and my friend ened up texting this guy after he tried texting mephotos 18-25He has tried reaching out on different social media platforms sense but I have not answered him and refused to talk to him even when he calls or FaceTime’s me over Snapchat and Instagram He is practically begging me at this point and it is extremely pathetic but I know if I block him he will just harass my cousin about it.I live in the middle of nowhere but he lives in the town closest to me where I have to go grocery shopping and wear a lot of like skating rinks and bowling alleys are so I am often terrified of seeing him out in public one day I didn’t see him and he was a with a bunch of friends Who I’ve never seen before. All these people that I didn’t know so you’re pointing me out and pointing at me I put my head up and just look the other way but I felt my phone buzz and looked at it and saw those him texting on Instagram I tried to have my phone as best as possible make sure you didn’t see that I was texting him back I told him that I was at a friends house in a town about an hour away from where we were thankfully he believed in me and the friends I was with could leave and go somewhere else to hang out.Since then I’ve been doing very well and avoiding him however I had to start a new Instagram account and delete everybody from my first one so he couldn’t harass anybody else on there because he was already starting to do it to some of my guy friends accusing them of dating meThe situation is simmering down and they don’t get any texts or calls for him ever and my friends hasn’t gotten any from him in about a month or two so we’re hoping that he finally came to his senses and left me aloneBut he didn’tOne night me and my friends were driving around just blasting music and haveing fun. I had forgotten to turn off my Snapchat location for him and he texted me the description of the car I was in. I pretend that I didn’t have any idea what he was talking about and told him I was at home about to get in the shower. He said “come on baby girl I know you are lying to me”I blocked himOn every social mediaHe followed us around for a while but we called a bunch of other friends and sent them our location the came and cut him off putting as many cars between us as possible. Then blocked off the road so he couldn’t get through we sped back to my friends house and hid the car so he couldn’t find us. We were only able to do that because we lived in the middle of nowhere and we were on backroads. He made several accounts trying to contact me but I never let him.He’s texted my friends saying that he needed to see me but they all blocked him tooSo to the creepy, mentally unstable guy who is obsessed with meLet’s never meet again. via /r/spoopycjades https://ift.tt/2IEaCEG
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