Monday, October 5, 2020

Wife cheated , lied about pregnancy from abusive ex. Used me . And now receiving spousal support.


Hello. This is a long awful story. I met my wife had a brief relationship and she became pregnant three months later. I married her before our son was born. She was abusive both physically and emotionally. She called her older son a retard and racial names to degrade him. Did the same to me. She insisted on having another baby. I refused before at least trying to improve our relationship. We lived in her father's house. She comes from a family of 16 and the father is a millionaire. Buys all his kids homes. She told me stories of the abuse she endured at the hands of her parents growing up. Sick stuff. I stayed as long as I could but it got so bad that her other children stated to call me the same degrading names she used for me. I didn't want my son to see his father treated like that so I left the house. I eventually came back a few months later because I couldn't imagine only seeing my son every other weekend and having him endure the insanity alone. I noticed that she was getting increasingly larger. She denied being pregnant to the bitter end. Actually never actually admitting to me she was. I assumed it was mine because one condition of coming back was to actively try to get her pregnant. I reluctantly did. I was preparing to live a life of quiet desitude. Covid hit. I bunkered down and started completing a task list of working on her house each day. She began to hide in the bathroom for longer periods each day leaving me to care for our son and her two other children from two different men. I did what I thought was right for the sake of the family. However, a few weeks before she gave birth she threw me out. I took our two year old son with me and moved into my premarital residence. Thank God I didn't listen to her when she try to get me to rent it. I didn't know if the new baby was mine until I received a letter from my insurance company given the name of the baby with her abusive ex husband last name. I filed for custody and proved that she was unfit and unable to take care of our son. I was awarded primary Custodial custody. She lied and lied and lied. Actually even saying I never moved back into the house . I have texts and receipts to prove this to be untrue. The divorce is pending but she filed for spousal support and was awarded with an insane amount. It's sickening that she is actually taking food out of our sons mouth. I realize it's only money. The courts only gave her a few hours a week with no overnights. Our son doesn't have to endure her madness. I am just taking back by the pure hypocrisy of it all though. We go back to court soon where I will prove she makes more then the zero dollars she claims to make. I don't even know why I'm writing this here. I just need to vent. Cherry on top, her parents are suing me for a non existing verbal contract saying I would pay for everything relating to the house while I lived there. These people are sick. I just want to do what right for my son and protect him from the abuse via /r/Infidelity https://ift.tt/3njIpmw

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