I know this sounds horrible. It is. My parents are obsessed with money and raised me to be extremely focused on saving, income. Etc. my boyfriend have very poor parental examples who still borrow money from him. He took a bad car loan and owes for some schooling about 14K. I have no debt. I own our house and he only pays 1/3 the rent and about the same ratio of our expenses as I make about 20k more. I have my degree and he does not. I love him very much and I want to marry him.But. I cannot stop thinking about how much I had a wealthy partner. How nice it would be to own a larger home, feel financially prepared for a baby, and not stress about money. He doesn’t have a degree and doesn’t plan to get one. There is room for moving up in his company but how far can someone get without a degree in a company?I feel really horrible posting. I wish I didn’t care about money. How do i get over this? He is younger than me so I know there is room for potential. I just find myself so jealous of my wealthy friends. I had always dreamed of not working until my kids are old enough for pre-school? Can someone help me snap out of this fantasy world? via /r/relationship_advice https://ift.tt/37rNgwu
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