Abusive not-step-father

So I have this somewhat step dad who isn't actually married to my mother, who, you guessed it is abusive. To start I should probably say that I have A.D.H.D. Anyways I have this step father, let's call him Rob for the sake of the story, who is both an alcoholic and sports adict, this means he is usually not home when he's supposed to be watching other kids. (He has a daughter and a child him and my mom had) this means that ad the oldest of all 3 (3rd is my brother from my mom's side of the family) I've had to watch children for hours on edge while he was off getting drunk and my mom was at work. No big deal but he would come back home at like 3-4 hours later and I wouldn't get a thank you or any forms of thanks. Now moving from that I want to say why he hates me. It all started a handful of years ago when he had just moved into our old hose with us back then I hadn’t been that big into Minecraft. Well ring-a-ding thats why he hates me. According to him everyone should like sports so my "unhealthy" lifestyle is not good for me and will make me "fat" (I do swim team and work out once or twice a week) he has acted like a 3 Y.O. for as long as I can remember saying rude things to me behind my mom's back. Every time he's threatened to get kicked out he gets into rude moods that effect everyone's mood. Then come day he should be out he's not gone instead lazing around playing his Xbox or Playstation drinking a beer.Do any of you guys have a parent/step parent that acts like this because ur different? via /r/abusiveparents https://ift.tt/3kqk2C0